Something about flirting and then dating and trying to get to know people always seems to end up a game. These games will wear you out. Especially when the relationship gets to the point where you both have to make a decision if you want to be exclusive or accept some mutually agreed level of commitment. Then it can turn into head games – or worse. I wish it was more effortless and natural. The head games cause so much drama and most of the time its not worth it.